4 Things You Should Never Say At A Funeral — No Matter What

precisely what another person is feeling.

A more sensitive approach is to acknowledge that you cannot fully understand their particular experience.

You could say:

“I can’t imagine how difficult this must be for you.”

Or:

“I’m so sorry you’re going through this.”

This leaves space for the grieving person to express their feelings in their own way.

4. Avoid Giving Unsolicited Advice

A funeral is generally not the appropriate time to tell someone how they should grieve.

Statements such as:

  • “You need to stay strong.”
  • “You should try to move